I'm not blind...

I just looked over my blog and noticed the hypocrisy of writing about celibacy and then having all these pictures of hot women running down the right side...

So I mentioned that our brains have certain programs hardwired into them. Try as we might, we cannot completely delete the need for sex. It is part of human survival. It must happen.

Try as I might to go through my days quietly and peacefully, I am constantly drawn to the beauty of women. I can't help it. I have eyes. They see things. They notice things that my brain finds pleasing. And women are one of them...

I am past the need to pursue any desires that my eyes might create (see the next blog). But try as I may, my eyes are still going to be drawn to things of beauty. But now they are just lumped in the same category as soothing music. Beautiful women and jazz both make me very happy. But I am not running out to join a jazz band. And I'm not running out to "bag a babe," as it were.

I'm just letting my senses do their job. Not creating any undo tension...

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